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22 Vibe Check Quizzes and Friendship Quizzes for Your Group Chat

You rate yourself, your friends rate you anonymously, and a character name shows up. Here are all 22 checks, and who to send each one to.

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the short version

Most quizzes ask you about yourself. These ones ask your friends. There are 22 checks on the site, from the classic vibe check to the road trip check, and each one comes with a handy note on who to send it to.

the cheat sheet:

  • ✓There are 22 checks, grouped into six shelves: friends, stars, unhinged, love & dating, family & home, and work.
  • ✓Every check works the same way: you rate yourself, friends rate you anonymously on sliders, and a character name shows up.
  • ✓Nothing unlocks until at least three friends have answered.
  • ✓Every character is a compliment. Nobody gets called a bad name.
  • ✓If you can't choose, start with the vibe check.

How do these friendship quizzes work?

You rate yourself on a few sliders. You send one link. Your friends rate you on the same traits, anonymously. Nothing unlocks until at least three of them have answered, so nobody can guess who said what.

Then you get your view and theirs side by side, plus a character name for how your friends see you. Every character is a compliment, and every one comes with a superpower. That's why these are fun to send. Nobody gets roasted.

There are 22 checks, on six shelves. Pick the shelf that matches the group you are about to send it to.

Which vibe check quizzes are for friends?

Start here. These five are for the people you text every day.

  • the vibe check: send it to your whole group chat. Might name you The Hype Machine.
  • the bestie check: send it to your oldest friend. Might name you The Ride-or-Die.
  • the hangout check: send it to whoever you go out with. Might name you The Group Glue.
  • the group chat check: send it to the chat itself. Might name you The Meme Sommelier.
  • the mom friend check: send it to anyone who has ever carried your snacks. Might name you The Emergency Kit.

Which ones are for the chaotic stuff?

Trips, emergencies and big stories. These five show who you are when things get exciting.

  • the chaos check: send it to your most unpredictable friend. Might name you The Detour Taker.
  • the travel check: send it to your trip crew. Might name you The Hidden Gem Finder.
  • the crisis check: send it to the friend you call when things go sideways. Might name you The Calm Center.
  • the main character check: send it to the friend who always has a story. Might name you The Show Stopper.
  • the road trip check: send it to whoever fights for the aux. Might name you The Navigator.

Which ones are for dating and star signs?

These are about how you show up in love, and how your friends see you doing it. They go to friends, not to someone you are dating. The zodiac check is for fun, and it asks for your sign only, never a birth date. It also gives you one shareable number: how closely your friends' view matches your sign.

  • the rizz check: send it to the friend who gives the best dating advice. Might name you The Slow Burn.
  • the first-date check: send it to anyone who has heard your date debriefs. Might name you The Table Booker.
  • the partner check: send it to friends, never to a partner who has not asked for it. Might name you The Words Person.
  • the green flag check: send it to the people who keep you around. Might name you The Biggest Fan.
  • the zodiac check: send it to your most star-sign-obsessed friend. Might name you The River.

And the family and work ones?

Family sees a different you than your friends do, and so do coworkers. Both are fun to compare.

Family and home

  • the sibling check: send it to your brothers and sisters. Might name you The Dependable One.
  • the holiday check: send it to your cousins and the family table. Might name you The Sous Chef.
  • the grown-up check: send it to the family who still pictures you at twelve. Might name you The Open Door.
  • the roommate check: send it to current and former roommates. Might name you The Quiet Hours Hero.

Work

  • the coworker check: send it to your work friends. Might name you The Clutch Player.
  • the meeting check: send it to the people who sit near you in meetings. Might name you The Bridge Builder.
  • the leader check: send it to the people you lead or learn from. Might name you The Straight Shooter.

Send one to three friends and see who guesses right. The vibe check is the easiest first pick.

the punchline

Twenty-two checks, one idea: your friends already know a side of you that you don't.

⚡ the vibe check

start with the classic vibe check

Not sure where to start? The vibe check names you in about 30 seconds: Peacekeeper, Hype Machine, Safe Place and more. Rate yourself and send one link.

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What are the best vibe check quizzes to send to friends?

The classic vibe check is the easiest place to start, since it works for any group. After that, pick the shelf that fits: the bestie check for close friends, the hangout check for nights out, or the group chat check for the chat itself.

How many checks are there?

There are 22, on six shelves: friends, stars, unhinged, love & dating, family & home, and work. You can also build your own custom check.

Are the friendship quizzes anonymous?

Yes. Friends rate you on sliders and stay anonymous. Nothing unlocks until at least three have answered, so you see a combined view and not who said what.

Are these quizzes free?

Yes. You rate yourself, send one link, and your friends answer in about 30 seconds each.

What if I don't like my result?

Every character name is a compliment with a superpower, so there is no bad result. If your friends see you differently than you expected, that is the interesting part.

who made this

the am i like this? crew

We make kind, slightly chaotic ways to find out how your people see you. No apps, no accounts, no corporate 360 nonsense: a few sliders, three friends and one very honest reveal.

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