6 traits · 3 friends · 60 seconds
you think
you know
yourself.
your friends know better.
Rate yourself on six traits. Three friends rate you anonymously — no accounts, no sign-ups. Then the overlay drops and you see the gap between the you that you know and the you that they know.
live example — the perception gap
CANDOR
Smooth Operator ↔ Straight Shooter
16 checks across 6 categories — or write your own
the vibe check
the classic. who are you, really?
💖the bestie check
what kind of friend are you really?
🎧the hangout check
who you become on a night out
🧨the chaos check
how feral are you, actually?
✈️the travel check
who you become three thousand miles from home
🚨the crisis check
who you are when it all goes wrong
😏the rizz check
your dating energy, rated by the group chat
🍸the first-date check
the version of you that shows up
💞the partner check
how you actually love, not how you think you do
🔮the zodiac check
are you actually a textbook [your sign]?
🧸the sibling check
your role in the family, decided by the family
🍽️the holiday check
who you turn into at the family table
🌳the grown-up check
the adult they see now, not the kid they remember
💼the coworker check
your 9-to-5 persona, exposed
📊the meeting check
who you become in a conference room
🧭the leader check
how you steer when it's your call
🛠️build your own
check anything. seriously.
01
check yourself
Pick a question pack — or write your own this-or-thats. Every answer is a flex.
02
send the link
Your people answer a few quick sliders about you. Anonymous, 30 seconds, no app.
03
see the gap
At 3 reviews the overlay unlocks: your shape vs. theirs, blind spots included.